well i missed a post yesterday
and dont have much to vent about today other than some people are so involved in themselves that they dont believe you when you say your sick. i didnt feel like being around a party full of people all evening, and i wasnt about to bring the kids to chase either. kiss my butt. im sick. it's nothing against you, unless of course you want my flu or whatever the crap this is.. cuz seriously... you can have it.
there. i feel better
Sunday, February 7, 2010
Friday, February 5, 2010
the dreaded time out
today alex was in a mood, the kind of mood where ya looked at him and he came out swinging.
he swung in fact, and clocked his brother right in the dome. well.. i cant let this go on, so i place him in our time out chair. not only was he outraged at this, but his brother was sad that he was in trouble, so he sat at the foot of the chair, and they both cried... nevertheless, they both sat there until the time ran out.. alex got down, and his brother smacked him back. nothing like delayed gratifacation... and we repeat the process.. four times.. sigh...
he swung in fact, and clocked his brother right in the dome. well.. i cant let this go on, so i place him in our time out chair. not only was he outraged at this, but his brother was sad that he was in trouble, so he sat at the foot of the chair, and they both cried... nevertheless, they both sat there until the time ran out.. alex got down, and his brother smacked him back. nothing like delayed gratifacation... and we repeat the process.. four times.. sigh...
Thursday, February 4, 2010
a quote i came across in a blog today really struck a chord for me
"be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle"- Plato
i've been trying today to think about the positive things in my life, and how much tougher we could have it even when i want to cry and scream about the bills being a little late, or not spending money on those shoes i really just Have to have. every person on the street has something going on in their lives too. So come on everyone, let that person into the traffic line, pay for a coffee, say Thank you when someone holds a door, and hold a door for someone else. one small act of kindness could really change someones day, because they too, are fighting something, no matter how small
"be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle"- Plato
i've been trying today to think about the positive things in my life, and how much tougher we could have it even when i want to cry and scream about the bills being a little late, or not spending money on those shoes i really just Have to have. every person on the street has something going on in their lives too. So come on everyone, let that person into the traffic line, pay for a coffee, say Thank you when someone holds a door, and hold a door for someone else. one small act of kindness could really change someones day, because they too, are fighting something, no matter how small
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
whats crackin... or... they can now open the fridge
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
songs to suit the mood
Fought away the sleepless hours Unsettled dreams will make you keep You can paint them all your brilliant colors Just don't fall off into the deep Happiness is not a burden Oh, how the pendulum will swing I have felt the ground, I've seen the seeds Out of which grew golden wings
you ever have one of those days where you can quite figure out the mood your in? it goes from overwhelming exhaustion, to sweet, to bittersweet, to melancholic , to content but with tears in your eyes?
for some reason this song covers that, not so much just in the words, but the melody, its called everblue by mandy moore.
its pretty fantastic. now hold on just a minute, im not going soft on ya, i just love love love this song. and to be honest with you. mike likes it too. so there. besides, shes my girl crush. for real. and i'll leave you with a pretty picture. because, you might have a crush on her too.. its just waiting to happen. come on jump on the band wagon
Monday, February 1, 2010
28 posts in 28 days
hey all! its been a lil while since i last posted anything real
today we're going to talk about the crazy people at the gym
you know the ones, who after45 min of insanly fast paced jogging on the eliptical, have yet to break a sweat, while me personally am struggling to remember to breathe, and trying to remember my name.
those people who have been up and at it for a while before you even walked thru the doors, and are still going far after your legs are rubber and your arms are jelly
i mean good for you , but come on... stop making us look bad. ;)
then again if you look at it from a mom's perspective and break it down
folding laundry 40 calories,
chasing kids after they get into the catfood, 50 calories,
picking up an indecicive toddler umpteen times ,123 calories
running from the back of the house to the front a gazillion times looking for said toddlers, juice cups, missing cellphone, remote, carkeys, cookie... you get the point... 87 calories on a low day.
dancing with two 30 lb toddlers on either hip. i dont even wanna know how many for that.. tho i do know i get a hefty work out cuz i can't walk for hours after without a wince.
okay so.. maybe i am that crazy person.. just at my home gym instead.
today we're going to talk about the crazy people at the gym
you know the ones, who after45 min of insanly fast paced jogging on the eliptical, have yet to break a sweat, while me personally am struggling to remember to breathe, and trying to remember my name.
those people who have been up and at it for a while before you even walked thru the doors, and are still going far after your legs are rubber and your arms are jelly
i mean good for you , but come on... stop making us look bad. ;)
then again if you look at it from a mom's perspective and break it down
folding laundry 40 calories,
chasing kids after they get into the catfood, 50 calories,
picking up an indecicive toddler umpteen times ,123 calories
running from the back of the house to the front a gazillion times looking for said toddlers, juice cups, missing cellphone, remote, carkeys, cookie... you get the point... 87 calories on a low day.
dancing with two 30 lb toddlers on either hip. i dont even wanna know how many for that.. tho i do know i get a hefty work out cuz i can't walk for hours after without a wince.
okay so.. maybe i am that crazy person.. just at my home gym instead.
Monday, January 25, 2010
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Hey ALL!!!!
i want to let you guys know about an awesome new baby apparel store called BabyAllDay.com
they have awesome onesies and toddler tee's with fresh snappy designs to fit your bundle of joy's attitude :O)
personally i love the one that says time out is for losers and oh my gosh if the new design that says junk in the truck didnt make me spit out my milk!! , and the just hatched onsie is Great for any new arrivals!!!
Come on guys and gals! check out babyallday.com
oh, and if you use coupon code rthom25 you get a whopping 25% off your order!!!
the store owners are friends of mine and it would be
Great!! if you could help me help them!!
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
round round round round i get around...
i sit here in tears this morning, as my kids rip apart my living room, destroying all my hard work, there's just too much stuff to contend with here. when they go down for their nap im going to be doing some serious downsizing wiht their toys. they're just not all necessary now. and i doubt they'll even notice. we have a whole toy box and three laundry baskets full of stuff. not to mention the riding toys and trucks and cars. ARRRUUUGGGGHHH. if i step on one more matchbox car ill scream. again. i think cabin fever is setting in
Friday, January 1, 2010
Saturday, December 26, 2009
the day after christmas, everyone was content
noone was thinking about the money they spent
the boys played on the floor with their trucks and their blocks
mommy lounged on the couch with her new slipper socks
the kitchens a mess, there's garbage under the tree
but everyones happy especially me
i got to spend time with the family, you see
and thats mostly what christmas means to me.
noone was thinking about the money they spent
the boys played on the floor with their trucks and their blocks
mommy lounged on the couch with her new slipper socks
the kitchens a mess, there's garbage under the tree
but everyones happy especially me
i got to spend time with the family, you see
and thats mostly what christmas means to me.
Sunday, December 20, 2009

Two faces to wash, and four dirty hands
Two insistent voices, making demands
Twice as much crying, when things go wrong
The four eyes closing, with slumber song
Twice as many garments, blowing on the line
Two cherubs in the wagon, soaking up sunshine
Work I do for twins, naturally comes double
But four arms to hug me, repay all my trouble.
~Author Unknown
so, even my husbands jeans are tight today, WHAT was in those COOKIES??
yum. thanks everyone who came to the cookie exchange, it was loud rowdy and hetci. but i loved every minute of it. especially where the boys came off their sugar high, and passed out at 7:30 instead of 9
i think everyone today has a massive sugar hangover.
time to wrap the PRESENTS!!! YAY!!!!!
yum. thanks everyone who came to the cookie exchange, it was loud rowdy and hetci. but i loved every minute of it. especially where the boys came off their sugar high, and passed out at 7:30 instead of 9
i think everyone today has a massive sugar hangover.
time to wrap the PRESENTS!!! YAY!!!!!
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Monday, December 14, 2009
tis the season
gift (gft)
n.
1. Something that is bestowed voluntarily and without compensation.
2. The act, right, or power of giving.
3. A talent, endowment, aptitude, or inclination.
tr.v. gift·ed, gift·ing, gifts
1. To present something as a gift to.
2. To endow with.
this holiday season has brought about a change in me, infact in many of us.
I've helped touch lives, and in return felt a warmth grow inside my heart thta on a day to day basis, now feels like it may be too big for my chest.
i've recently given away most of the boys baby clothing, some of their accessories that they have out grown, and with it. a small piece of my heart to every family that recieves the gifts that were given to them.
i find no need to hold onto that part of the past(save for a few teensy baby outfits that i put in their hope chests)
oh the feeling of giving, i think i take more pleasure than anyone i help out. i almost feel selfish, for helping out those in need, to satisfy a part of me that sometimes feels a bit lacking.
i've found a calling. don't expect it to stop.
n.
1. Something that is bestowed voluntarily and without compensation.
2. The act, right, or power of giving.
3. A talent, endowment, aptitude, or inclination.
tr.v. gift·ed, gift·ing, gifts
1. To present something as a gift to.
2. To endow with.
this holiday season has brought about a change in me, infact in many of us.
I've helped touch lives, and in return felt a warmth grow inside my heart thta on a day to day basis, now feels like it may be too big for my chest.
i've recently given away most of the boys baby clothing, some of their accessories that they have out grown, and with it. a small piece of my heart to every family that recieves the gifts that were given to them.
i find no need to hold onto that part of the past(save for a few teensy baby outfits that i put in their hope chests)
oh the feeling of giving, i think i take more pleasure than anyone i help out. i almost feel selfish, for helping out those in need, to satisfy a part of me that sometimes feels a bit lacking.
i've found a calling. don't expect it to stop.
Friday, December 11, 2009
i can hear the bells...
or maybe its all the punk kids with snow days, who insist being outside in subzero temperatures and blistering wind. yep. thats what im hearing. kids, where ARE your mothers? grandmothers? babysitters? legal guardians? its COLD out there. thus the NO school. HELLO???
ah. to be a kid and be immune to cold again.
ill stay snuggled warm inside in the meantime. :)
the tree is up the house is decorated, the kids are trying to dissasemble all my work, ah. its xmas time. let us indulge.
ah. to be a kid and be immune to cold again.
ill stay snuggled warm inside in the meantime. :)
the tree is up the house is decorated, the kids are trying to dissasemble all my work, ah. its xmas time. let us indulge.
Monday, December 7, 2009
look. my kids on redbull.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqTH5ll1StI
hahah the boys re running around my kitchen in full out circles screaming at the top of their lungs.. if i could locate a camera it would be perfect. alas, he house has once again swallowed something whole. im sure it will be spil out sometime near mayday, or perhaps that every tricky selfproclaimed(mommmy needs a minute or a vailum) day.
okay back to zookeeping.
hahah the boys re running around my kitchen in full out circles screaming at the top of their lungs.. if i could locate a camera it would be perfect. alas, he house has once again swallowed something whole. im sure it will be spil out sometime near mayday, or perhaps that every tricky selfproclaimed(mommmy needs a minute or a vailum) day.
okay back to zookeeping.
Friday, December 4, 2009
true friends are always together in spirit
Everybody longs to be part of something, to be accepted as an individual, into a group. don't get me wrong, i have a great existance as a mother and a wife, very exclusive rewarding groups. but i used to find myself needing, wanting to be so much more than the labels ive been given. that is, until recently when i found one special word that has so many levels of meaning, - FRIEND-"A true friend is someone that knows the song of your soul, and
sings it back to you when you have forgotten the words."
these past few months, i have found an amazing group of friends, who have each others backs without even blinking an eye. when i asked them to participate in helping out one of our own, they NOT ONCE asked , why, but How can i help you and how soon can we do it. I truely am Humbled by these woman, who have helped me find a part of myself i knew was there, but could not seem to make shine. i find myself finding a touch of color in things i never payed attention to and i and definatly looking towards the good things instead of the bad. i find gratitude in things i would of passed off, like the ability to feed my family, to clothe them, that we are able to keep one and other safe, and even the little things like, someone letting me in line in the drive through.
thus i digress. i want to Call each and every one of you woman out. and not with names, you ALL know who you are.
Love you, all of you, whether we've met or not. you ALL have a special place in my heart. and for that im truely greatful.
sings it back to you when you have forgotten the words."
these past few months, i have found an amazing group of friends, who have each others backs without even blinking an eye. when i asked them to participate in helping out one of our own, they NOT ONCE asked , why, but How can i help you and how soon can we do it. I truely am Humbled by these woman, who have helped me find a part of myself i knew was there, but could not seem to make shine. i find myself finding a touch of color in things i never payed attention to and i and definatly looking towards the good things instead of the bad. i find gratitude in things i would of passed off, like the ability to feed my family, to clothe them, that we are able to keep one and other safe, and even the little things like, someone letting me in line in the drive through.
thus i digress. i want to Call each and every one of you woman out. and not with names, you ALL know who you are.
Love you, all of you, whether we've met or not. you ALL have a special place in my heart. and for that im truely greatful.
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